Question for plural folks? (Boosts welcome)
Have any of you had a time when some members of your system felt they were pigeonholed by other members and the fronting patterns of the system as a whole?We are having the situation where a couple of our facets feel like they are seen as cardboard cutouts with a simple list of a few of their traits being highlighted, and they are experiencing it being a limiter on them.
Like one of our facets that predominantly fronts during kink stuff is frustrated that she doesn’t “get to” front more often outside of that context. she is theorizing that while it’s not like, deliberate intent on other alters and facets part that this happens, but the fact that she is collectively pigeon holed by all of us is to blame for a bias on the part of whatever semi autonomous processes are determining who fronts.
We’re trying to figure out how to sort this out, how to give her and others in our system the chance to front in other contexts, and to be able to explore and define themselves (bc yeah. we can only think of a few basic defining traits for some of them :/)
Any suggestions on how to sort out this kind of thing would be appreciated!