transfem kink musing at 4am
i wonder how much of my submissive desire comes from not feeling like i belonged in the communities, spaces, and relationships i was in for decades, all because i was secretly a woman (even kept it secret from myself).So like, having a dominant explicitly communicate through their actions/words that i am desired and belong is intoxicating.
Like; fuck, being collared and treated as a pet really feels like the ultimate “you explicitly belong here”. yes, there’s a “you belong to me” too, but undergirding that is an acceptance and explicit communication of welcome into the moment, into the dynamic…
Is it any wonder that I crave to be collared and to submit?
And i crave to share my passion and love through my submission too. To tell the dominant: you too belong. To through my acts and my sounds convey that feeling, share not just a feeling of acceptance, but desire for who they are.