I need to remember in the future that when i've had a high stress day I generally struggle to communicate clearly, and i need to remember to sloooooow the heck down and double check meaning! I've stuck my foot in my mouth on some stuff repeatedly in the last 30 minutes ><
@a_blahaj@Grat10 unironically i'd argue that messing around too much can be good too! It's just a question of making sure you're checking in with your own comfort level and such!! <3 :3!
foodaround once a year i get food from Thai Express and then i get to experience the widest gulf between expectation and reality in the food realm. And the thing is, it’s not actively bad. It’s just bland and mediocre, but in comparison to the heights of thai food, it’s SUCH a disappointment.
Amused that it takes about a year to forget this fact and try again
Admittedly this situation would be a lot easier if I could host folks! Like i’m very much looking forward to a place of my own where I can set it up to be a landing pad for other hot genderfuck trans folks.
I’m very lucky with my current situation to be able to live with supportive family while I job hunt. But like. place where I can invite others over to be vulnerable and weird and make each other worse…
Like recently i’ve been limiting my searching for new lovely perverts to meet and fuck to Southern Ontario, bc I might actually be able to see those folks in meatspace more than once a year! And there are so many trans hotties even in that area (if you are reading this and live in Southern Ontario I’m talking about you!!) but even then it’s like. “need a car” distances.
holy shit yes
place where I can invite others over to be vulnerable and weird and make each other worse…